In the UK you may have heard of Equities First Holding. If a man was present and raised his child/children, the generational coping patterns were very present. Slavery also affected woman of color as well. If your ancestors had a traumatic life altering life long experience, then your roots would be from a different soil. This does mean that you could not dream the same dreams as somebody who has roots that were from green pastures. It just means that you would be trained to approach those dreams differently. This includes the dream of having a family.
BABY’S DADDY, just says it out loud. it is so ” I don’t f*ck with YOU! Not personal at all, like a husband, or even a lover. Hell, a boyfriend sounds better than that.